I related with this piece a lot. I've lately realized that I'm giving too much to others and also shaming myself by doing things that I hate just to accommodate their needs. I liked this article a lot
i’m also the kind of person who will drop something big to do little things for others.. not out of obligation but because of others’ joy and even sometimes relief that comes with showing up for them. ive been thinking a lot lately about how small these efforts can appear, but how frequently i probably come across small kindnesses too. perhaps a friend texting me back meant they had to pivot out of a slump, or the little trinket my coworker made for me took hours of their time. i sometimes feel like the best kindling is community. if that makes any sense. thank you for sharing !!
Yes, it’s all about finding that balance. Doing things for others is one of the best ways to feel happier and more fulfilled, but if you aren’t feeling that way then you know the balance is off.
I related with this piece a lot. I've lately realized that I'm giving too much to others and also shaming myself by doing things that I hate just to accommodate their needs. I liked this article a lot
I'm glad you enjoyed the piece Mati :) Start taking those steps to put yourself first and draw healthy boundaries.
Focus on your fire! You got this.
i’m also the kind of person who will drop something big to do little things for others.. not out of obligation but because of others’ joy and even sometimes relief that comes with showing up for them. ive been thinking a lot lately about how small these efforts can appear, but how frequently i probably come across small kindnesses too. perhaps a friend texting me back meant they had to pivot out of a slump, or the little trinket my coworker made for me took hours of their time. i sometimes feel like the best kindling is community. if that makes any sense. thank you for sharing !!
Thanks for your comment :)
Yes, it’s all about finding that balance. Doing things for others is one of the best ways to feel happier and more fulfilled, but if you aren’t feeling that way then you know the balance is off.